Yes, my password is: All swinging for beginners this must be thought of, thoroughly. Swinging for beginners more about your partner than yourself. The more open and communicative you swinging for beginners the better. Things like the limits that you are both comfortable with are very important and should be stuck to and respected. You will get more comfortable with things as you realise you are both okay with it and maybe even encourage each other. This is something you need to learn on your own. Hopefully this helps at least a few couples out there to take the chance and see how fun and rewarding it can be, for you, your partner, and your relationship! So what IS swinging anyway? Okay, so you have both decided that you feel your relationship is secure enough to try it.